Thursday, October 6, 2016

Erev Rosh HaShanah 5777: Finding Joy

A version ot this sermon was delivered at Temple Emanu-El of East Meadow on Erev Rosh HaShanah 5777.

A story[1] is told of a chassid, a simple and pious man, dedicated to his family, and always going out of his way to provide for them.  Though they were wealthy in spirit, they were poor in possessions.  Every Shabbat afternoon, as the sun began to set, this man, Yitzchak, who always did for his family, would do something small for himself.  He packed a small bag of dried fruits and nuts and took it with him as he went for a walk in the woods.  It was during this time that Yitzchak would commune with God and with nature; he enjoyed God’s world, all of creation out before him.

One particularly beautiful Shabbat, Yitzchak was out walking.  The sun shone as he had never seen it before.  The birds sang so clearly those back in the village heard their melodies.  Yitzchak couldn’t wait for his precious moments alone in the woods.

And so, at his regular time, he packed his small satchel with dried fruit and nuts and made his way.  He kissed his wife and children saying as he said every week: “I’ll see you in a little while, and then we’ll have dinner together.”  And so, he strolled.  Into the woods, singing with the birds, enjoying the trees, the flowers, the bushes.  He enjoyed himself so much, that he looked up suddenly and realized that his surroundings were unfamiliar.

As he strolled further, the sky began to darken and the beautiful day began to turn eerie and gloomy.  Realizing he had lost his way, Yitzcak tried to turn back, but each time he made a turn he got more lost.  When he thought he recognized a familiar patch, he would head in that direction only to be more confounded by the forest.  He was completely confused.  He didn’t know how to get back home.  As he wandered, he began to worry, and to become afraid.

At last he noticed a clearing and he said to himself, this must be the way back to the village. And so he headed in that direction.  Yet, as he approached he realized that it didn’t look familiar at all.  Still, he continued walking, and soon he began to hear a drifting melody

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on the wind, a haunting melody, the more he walked, the louder it became, and the more joy he felt in his heart as his feet and legs seemed to carry him toward the sound.  He walked until he saw where the sound was coming from.  A group of men, sitting in a circle, having a good time, sharing a large bottle of wine and telling stories, all punctuated by this melody.

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As he listened, he began to sway to the melody.  He watched as the men got up to dance and jump for joy to this wordless tune, this niggun.  And suddenly, Yitzchak saw that these were no ordinary men singing and dancing.  In fact, they were cossacks, who had been persecuting his village for many years.  But he did not run.  Yitzchak hid behind a bush and listened to the melody again and again.  He was entranced, and began to sing to himself.  Louder and louder without noticing it, he sang this melody.  Seemingly hypnotized, he swayed to himself with his eyes closed, praying to God the wordless melody.

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He opened his eyes to see the cossacks staring at him.  “Come out of the woods, Jew spy!”  they shouted at him.  What could he do, he was found.  He went to them.  Quickly, they tied him to a tree and went back to their party, their food and their wine.  And there was a lot of wine.  So much that one by one, they each drifted off to sleep, leaving Yitzchak tied to the tree, the melody still clear in his mind and in his soul.  Well, Yitzchak was no dummy.  Though he was fearful, the melody in his mind gave him strength and courage, seeming to energize his soul.  He managed to quietly free himself from the ropes and make his escape.  

As he quietly and quickly fled, he said to himself: “what a wonderful melody I have learned, even amid such a difficult time.  I hope I never forget it.”  So he began to hum it over and over again to himself.

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Yitzchak looked up and saw the familiar path toward his village and his pace quickened as he headed home, all the while singing and humming the melody.  As he approached his wife and kids and the neighbors all came out to greet him.  “Yitzchak, what happened?  We were so worried about you!  Where have you been!”  Yitzchak smiled at them and began to sing.

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“Yitzchak, what’s wrong with you!” his wife asked.  “We’ve been worried sick and you can’t even say hello!?”  Yitzchak kissed his wife on the cheek and sang again.  The same thing happened when his children asked after him.  Thinking it would pass, they gave him a couple of days – who knows what happened in the woods? – but each time someone would ask him a question, he would only sing the melody he learned in the forest.  They took him to the doctor, they took him to the rabbi.  No one knew what to do!  

Eventually, the rabbi, the doctor and the elders of the town decided that Yitzchak needed to go to a nearby town, where there were doctors who treated people whose souls were sick.  Sadly, his family packed his bag, and took him to the square to say goodbye, where the entire town was waiting to see him off.  Everyone had always loved him and didn’t know what had happened.

His carriage arrived.  The villagers lifted him to his seat.  Before he left, he turned and waved, still singing the niggun.  The carriage began to make its way, and as it drove off, Yitzchak heard from behind him one of his children: “Papa!” the girl shouted, and then Yitzhcak heard the melody again, this time coming from his daughter.  

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Then his wife joined in.  

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Then the entire town, singing this niggun to see Yitzchak off.  

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In their sadness and confusion, they found the melody on their hearts, and for a moment, they felt better as they watched his carriage head out of town.
           
“STOP!”  Yitzchak suddenly yelled at the top of his voice, to the driver.  

“Yitzchak, is that you!” his wife shouted.  “You haven’t spoken in weeks!”

“Of course it’s me!”  He jumped out of the carriage.  “I was so worried that I would lose this melody, this tune which brought such joy to my heart and to my soul, such inspiration to my prayers to God, that I was determined to teach it to all of you, whom I love!  This joyful tune should be a part of all of our souls.  Now that we have shared it together, this, like every other sacred memory that we join together to create will never be lost.”

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What are we to learn from Yitzchak, whose name comes from the word for laughter?  So pure was his joy at this melody, and so important to him was this ability to pray with joy and intentionality that he decided to forego everything, his words, his family, his relationships, to ensure that what he experienced would not be forgotten, and could be experienced by others.  He desired to spread the joy which helped him to reach out to God in prayer.  Prayer is often supposed to be joyful, you see, not experienced as a burden, something we have to sit through to make it to the oneg, which is one of the many words in Hebrew for joy.  And this joy, like laughter, can be contagious.

But it may be hard to experience joy if we don’t know where to look and what to listen for.  It may also be hard, because, let’s be honest, this last year has been difficult for many of us.  But it is out of these difficulties that we ought to search for the melody on our souls, the prayers in our hearts.

Though these High Holy Days have heavy theology and serious words and themes, we are, nonetheless, supposed to be joyful on this New Year’s Day.

In a recent article,[2] one of my professors from Seminary, Rabbi Michael Chernick notes that the Yamim Nora'im are supposed to be a time of our great joy, and that it’s only one part of the Jewish family that really sees the days of awe as our machzor puts it in its translation of the Unetaneh Tokef: “full of dread.”[3]  This prayer, the Unetaneh Tokef, which reminds us of the fragility of life is of Ashkenazi origin, which means Sepharadic Jews don’t recite it.  And, because it’s not in their service, the heaviness of our mortality is not quite as prominent a theme.  For many of us, the High Holy Days would be incomplete without this prayer.  But Rabbi Chernick seems to tell us that they are also incomplete if we allow the theme of this one prayer to set the mood of the entire Days of Awe.  

Is there a place for introspection?  Of course.  Is there a place for confession and repentance?  Of course there is.  But the days are incomplete if we don’t also make room for joy.  The Torah calls this day “Yom Teruah” a day of the blasting of the horn, but a Teruah is not just a blast, it is supposed to be a joyful blast of the horn, and we read in the Torah: “On the day of your joy and your festivals and new moons, sound the trumpet.”[4]  Joyful days are accompanied by blasts of the horn.  We close out Yom Kippur, 10 days from now, with a blast of the Shofar to celebrate the joy of having made it through the day, and having been sealed in the book of life.  The shofar blasts a melody of joy and wholeness, a melody that should stick in our hearts and our souls throughout the year ahead.

In addition Sepharadim don’t just have one Selichot Service, they do it all of Elul, early in the morning, and it’s joyful and upbeat mostly.  I recall one early morning in Jerusalem, our entire class went on a field trip to attend sepharadic selichot, early in the morning, and the melodies and singing were seemingly out of place in what was supposed to be a mood of asking forgiveness.  But joyful it was, and Dr. Chernick explains that “the general feeling is that although we may not have been our best selves, and should do better, nevertheless, we have a loving parent, who is ready to accept our imperfections if we just try harder to be the Image of God we were created to be.”

So, in what image of God were we created?  On this anniversary of Creation, we recall that when God finished creating, God commented on the goodness of the creation.  It was all good: Tov or Tov me’od, very good.  God looks upon what God has created with pleasure and joy as God recognizes the positive aspects of creation.

As we begin our journey through these High Holy Days, let us strive to seek out joy and imbue our prayers with the goodness that exists.  And beyond these 10 days, let us seek out joy in our prayers throughout this year ahead 5777.  Even in these difficult times, when we face personal, communal and global difficulties, let us endeavor to find the joy in our prayer, it may make the difficulties that much easier to bear.

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What melodies will we hear and be moved to sing that will ferret out the joy in our hearts?  What will it look like to share that melody with others?  How might it change us?  And how will it connect us better with God?

May the shofar blasts mark this as a day of joy.  May we hear their calls and be moved to sing out for wholeness and for joy in our souls and in our entire beings.  And may we enter the New Year in gladness and goodness, happiness and contentment.

Shanah Tovah!  Shanah Tovah, me’od.



[1] Based on The Melody in “Three Times Chai”
[2] Chernick, Michael, “The Season of our Guilt or the Season of our Joy?” in Times of Israel
[3] Gates of Repentance, p 107
[4] Numbers 10:10

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